Monday, April 30, 2012

Betrayal. Yes or No?




How does it feels like to adopt feelings for someone?
I believe it's wonderful and magical.

Now, how does it feels like to adopt feelings for someone when you have a fiancee?
I think it feels like crap.

Having feelings for someone other than your fiancee is the same as betraying her.
Sex might not be involved, but it's a relationship that is beyond friendship and beneath love.
You longed to see that person, chat with her and spend time with her as much as possible before you head home and face your fiancee.

How much guilt does one feels when they are in that situation?
Will you feel guilty enough to confess that you have feelings for someone else?
Is it a one-time thing or is it gonna last for a period of time?
One-sided or does both parties feel the same way?

There are so many questions that I have for this particular person.
I wonder where did that courage come from.
To actually have feelings for someone else other than the lady you've proposed to.

Why would I choose the word betray?
Betray means sleeping with that person, you say.
But I don't think that how things work in a relationship.

You can have crushes for someone else.
Yes, you can.
As long as you keep your thoughts simple and you do not cross the line, I don't see anything wrong with it.
But driving "her" to and fro work, having lunch together almost everyday at work and attempting to go on a trip together is beyond the line.

This is the line you need to be wary of.
This is the line you should never cross.
This IS the line.




Physical betrayal is the same as mental betrayal.

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